I'm Ersilia
Ersilia Tarantino,
I believe
AND
my mission is to show you how to hear them so you can be uplifted and inspired to new possibilities. I help you see your hidden gifts, assets and talents that you may have forgotten, ignored, and that can create more wealth, harmony, confidence and abundance in your life. Turn 'I can't" into "I Can' the things that you keep ignoring that nagging voice, the calling that you can no longer quieten down. To hear those inner emotions, messages, and be that passionate you to create more meaning, and find flow. It's not things that bring you love, it's your relationships to all things, that harmony within that creates harmony without to raise your energy, vibes and confidence to fulfill your needs and desires, getting you where you want to go with more courage, satisfaction & joy.
Australian born and UK raised with that Italian father to keep me understanding what La Dolce Vita is all about, I’m proud to have created a business that I love and that supports people to feel good as a way towards communicating their uniqueness for success.
I help people like you to feel comfortable with the uncomfortable to make that change to live a life that suits you, and not just live from the head but from the heart and dive a little deeper into yourself to find more life satisfaction.
As long as I can remember, I’ve been a visionary, able to see the big picture as well as the untapped potential gifts and assets of people and places. Being an insatiably curious individual I spent the first half of my life exploring, not just the world but the human mind and human spirit, working in all sorts of places as a tour guide, travel agent, hospitality rep, and building up different businesses within hospitality and wellbeing, cafes and restaurants. I snowboarded in unique places, spent time with unique people. I guess I was searching, searching and seeking to understand myself, my passions and my desires. But what I learnt is I was looking in the wrong places outside, not inside, so for the past 10 years I stopped, paused, took a break and started a new journey to discover what life feels like from the inside out.
I learnt I was a sensitive passionate and creative soul I feel deeply and always felt different not fitting into societies "norms" and I wanted to know why!! I wanted to know the difference between joy vs struggle, harmonious and obsessive passion and understand my emotions, why we do what we do, what is true success and how to create more connection and harmony in my relationships. For a long time I perceived success as material success and got lost in those ideas. I perceived that my passion and sensitivity was a set back, my emotions no good and hid my creative artistic potential. Which turned into feeling pain, lacking hope and feeling discouraged, feeling like it wasn't possible to go on or reach my dreams my desires.
I broke down, burned out and lost my motivation, because I realised I had instead been following everyone else's ideas of life, people pleasing, their dreams, putting them first. My road back up came when I got to the bottom I reached the "icecream dropped on the floor moment" (I love icecream, that's such a waste!!!) emotionally, mentally and financially drained, having lost my relationship, giving up on my business. I lost the reasons it was important, felt I had no more purpose why was I was doing it all, to have a better lifestyle, better relationships . At that moment I decided to get support to look within to change direction. Go on a spiritual inner journey.
I trained as an Intuitive Coach, found my own hidden creative talents through art, trained in a body mind method and sat down and created some self care. Learnt communication tools and how to listen to your gut and communicate it. I discovered Lifecoaching, and it helped me refind my joy, my creativity the truth of who I was, the inner spirit to guide me. I found it so helpful I retrained as an Intuitive Coach and let my joyful spirit lead me back up like a compass in the right direction. Instead I finally realised that that was my gold, sensitivity was a strength, the art of being was the path and emotions a guide through life, and the amazing gifts that come with them. As a passionate creator and now also an artist (the untapped potential)through my research and through my love of people, psychology and self awareness, I gained a multitude of life experiences both professional and personal. With an abundance of travel, developing and setting up businesses for myself and others and my spiritual knowledge and training, I put everything I know together and developed a concept of ideas to help you to stop feeling guilty for your desires, and putting you and your self care first. Thats the true way to teach others and your children how to do it too, be happy first and then let them feel your happiness, so. hey have an example. Learn how to stay confident, assertive and empowered through those ups and downs, changes and challenges, collapses of life and continue to communicate who you are with ease to gain more life satisfaction..
those nagging thoughts and ideas that won't go away but you never follow through with.....
Let me tell you a secret they might be coming from your heart your intuition and giving you the answers to finding the gold, and if you ignore them it only leads to pain, exhaustion.
Have you been making excuses, like I don't have money, the kids come first, when I retire......
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My life experiences taught me how to stop and listen and follow my heart, my joy....How do you hear your heart?
by being present and stopping all the noise, mental, and external.
After many years following everyone else's dreams, my head, social norms, I felt so low I wasn’t sure I wanted to go on living but I did. Bolstered by some force deep within, I lifted myself into a space where I began to feel vibrant, sexy, sassy, assertive, and full of life again — something I hadn’t felt in a long time. When you commit to life, life commits and guides you back!!
I moved to France and finally began following my heart, my childhood dreams by opening a little cafe and juice bar by the beach and discovering more connection in my relationships.
However after trying to manage a juice bar business on my own, with the wrong ideas of success, trying to do it like everyone else and getting burnt out and exhausted balancing love and business, keeping up the image of the confident person everyone thought I was that didn't need help and could do it alone, I broke down.
I realized I needed to redefine my model of success, what drove me and motivated me and understood how I could be passionate and harmonious, balanced in my emotions, to have better relationships, let people connect with that, and that being sensitive and intuitive was a skill not a failure and I now use it in my everyday life and work. I found a purpose again, inside not outside, a divine reason to be here. My struggle and pain was part of life and I listened to it instead of ignoring it, it gave me clues to why I was here
Including your unique gifts and talents, your joyful spirit and most importantly, your hearts desires. It allows you to connect more genuinely to those around you and feel good, supported. So often we look outside ourselves for the answers and keep going with those rational, logical ideas and with things we don't enjoy because that's how it's 'Supposed" to be. Instead of questioning and understanding that we are not just logical and rational, but emotional and heartfelt. Aren't we all just seeking contentment and happiness, and that's an inside job, its about learning to hear yourself and your desires that allow you to enjoy and create change, then use the head and rationality to put those ideas into place. Finding a new perspective that changes the direction in which we do it!! It's all about learning how to feel comfortable through the uncomfortable moments of making new habits, fear, loss, the transition times in life and there are plenty of those. It's called evolution and growth. If you aren’t growing you are stuck and stagnating and that’s where boredom or dissatisfaction sets in or that feeling of being lost. It means you aren’t heading in the direction of your desires. You can continue to complain and make excuses about why you can’t do what you want to do or you can do something about it. You can stop telling yourself that it is other people holding you back and take responsibility for what you want.
Are you ready to go for what you want and get rid of the crap holding you back. Instead go for the good S.H.I.T? SOUL, HEART, INTUITION, TRUTH
I've been told I am a super manifestor, so let me help you manifest those dreams
act to create new possibilities in your life
I'm also an Artist, and not just through painting but the Art of Being and presence my mission is to support you to feel you can create wealth and abundance from those hiddeen gifts and talents. I bet you're an ideas person, an innovator I always have been but for a long time never recognised that about myself. I told myself all sorts of excuses why I couldn’t do what I wanted, why I wasn’t good enough and why joy was never going to earn me money, what would people think if I stepped outside of the box.
5 reasons I believe that working with me will get you where you want:
I want to inspire and encourage you to new ways of thinking & creating to achieve more wealth and abundant success from you unrecognised gifts and talents.. are you ready to discover them, so you can change your life, change the way you feel about yourself, experience new things, take more risks, find a new approach, look from another angle of vision & take a 180 degree turn ?
At every moment you can tell if the vibration that you are sending is either a positive one or a negative one by identifying the feeling you are experiencing. The first step to achieving your desires is to be present
What do you want to achieve?
and how can Coaching and taking a break help?
Most people don’t change they transform their habits, and taking a break from life, even for a short moment is how you become aware of the habits that keep you stuck. It's a moment to take a breeak from the pain or the difficult emotions, a time for reflection, getting quiet being heard to hear those deep inner callings and the things in the silence that you dismiss when you are busy. It helps you understand what you need to transform. Listening to those emotions which are the guide to whether you are going in the right direction. Learning what the messages are, and knowing that you are your best guide, not everyone else.
Coaching is the mirror that reveals to you the habits that are no longer serving you. To make new conscious choices on whats possible, how you feel about yourself. Accepting yourself, warts and all is just the beginning and then deciding to do something different is the next step.
It's uncomfortable to change your habits, step outside the box, do things differently and I believe that's when support can help to get a new perspective and not do it alone. Doing it alone is possible, but doing it together makes it quicker. Einstein said that you can’t solve a problem at the same level as the thinking that created it. I believe him.
Are you ready to let go of who you thought you were to become who you were meant to be and take the most amazing journey of your life?
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